ISSUE #2
After Break Up Feels
We all know that break up is not so easy to handle. Whether you wanted it or not. There’s this weird feeling that attacks us in every situation like this. Every time we broke up with someone else we always feel sad and bored, that’s NORMAL! There’s no break up that feels so good unless you were just waiting for that moment to happen but usually, it’s sad. Basing on my own experiences, I’ve tried to broke up already many times and I always feel bad at the end of it whether I wanted to or not. The point here is when you start feeling sad and you start to think of getting him back, you think first of the REASONS why you left him in the first place or did he left you? that’s worse and you shouldn’t even think of running after him especially when you are a woman. I am not being biased here because I am a woman but I am telling this to remain the dignity of a woman to men.
Now, after thinking about all the reasons why you broke up, start thinking that those reasons will still be the reasons for you to cry when you choose to go back. Now, would you choose to lose the chance of recovering and meeting the right man for you just to go back and feel those pain again? There’s that song that says “I’d rather have bad times with you than good times with someone else.” that is being misunderstood by a lot of people. That’s why they think that to stay with someone they love even if it hurts is still better. But that’s so wrong! When you’re hurting being with that someone it only means that he is not the one for you. So you have to give yourself a chance to meet that right man where you can be respected and treated the way you wanted.
Sometimes we’re just being blinded by our fantasies that’s why we quickly look for love and can’t stand to be alone for a long time. We don’t want to wait for the right time and always claim someone we have as our right one even if it’s clear that he’s not. Come on, wake up! Once they hurt us they’ll always will. Exemption to the rule, there are people who truly change but generally, the truth is they don’t. So why waste your time going back to the person who will hurt you again and again? Break up is a door for you to go out from your mistake and a chance to start a right one, so you better be wise and don’t let your feelings fool you. You have to be tough and strong enough to face the pain and you’ll surely overcome it eventually. Say NO! and don’t go back!
Feel free to critique with respect.
