Cervix, the neglected sacred spot
It seems the cervix is never brought up in pleasant conversation. It has been so pathologized that when people think of it, they think only of cervical cancer, cervical erosion…
Even today, many people think cervical erosion is an illness, but actually, it disappeared from medical textbooks as such years ago. It is not at all a disease.
In fact, many people don’t even know where the cervix is located, or else during sex they might feel “It’s too deep and it hurts” and stopped exploring further.
Actually, the purpose of pain is your body communicating a message to you, but oftentimes, as soon as pain occurs, we wish to immediately avoid or relieve it without trying to understand what message the pain is trying to convey to us and what action it needs us to take.
The cervix is located deep in the vagina. Some cervices may not be strictly in the center but rather a little to the left or right.
If you take a finger and explore in the depths, you will reach two small petal-like flaps and then a small opening. That is the cervix.
Some people have deeper cervices, and these can be reached in different postures, such as kneeling. During menstruation, the cervix will also drop lower.
The cervix is a curious thing. It can be the place where the most hurts accumulate, or the place that brings the deepest healing and joy.
When the hurt and tension in the cervix is released via de-armouring, it will become extremely sensitive and horny (my article of de-armouring is not translated to English yet, if you want to keep updated please follow my blog).
For many people, the most pleasant kind of stimulation for the cervix is not a violent and rapid collision, but rather a slow, gentle, gradual stimulation, similar to clitoral stimulation, at least for starting.
Circling, gentle pressure, or pressing and holding for a while (if you are with your partner, you can look into each other’s eyes while pressing and holding).
Compared to the flashy clitoral orgasm, the cervical orgasm stretches farther and spreads through the whole body, bringing about a complete opening of the heart.
This kind of orgasm is easier to reach when your heart is already quite open and deeply connected to yourself/your partner.
This often cannot be reached the first time. Some people think it takes two years of practice.
The clitoral orgasm/ejaculation or G-spot orgasms are related to the pudendal nerves, while the cervical orgasm is related to the vagus nerve and our parasympathetic nervous system, which controls unconscious body functions.
Common activities that stimulate the vagus nerve include yoga, meditation, chanting, and tai chi.
The cervical orgasm also releases DMT, which is a natural substance released by the pineal gland upon the three major portals of life: birth, giving birth, and death. It can open up consciousness to enter a higher dimension and a feeling of oneness.
Therefore, many women who have experienced cervical orgasm describe it as a mystical experience.
During intercourse, entry from behind or legs on shoulders are the best positions for stimulating the cervix.
The contact between the head of the penis and the cervix is a very deep energy exchange.
It is recommended not to agree to have sex with a man who is very stressed and wants to release this stress through sex, as this may allow his stress to be released into your body through the cervix.
Generally, I don’t encourage you to have sex to release stress if you are interested in the higher potential of sexuality.
