The thrill of winning someone over is even more intoxicating. — People around me always urge me to move on. It’s a waste of time pursuing someone who doesn’t reciprocate the same affection. I’ve shaken before. But now, I beg to differ. Why would I want someone easy? As a man, I enjoy the chase. I want to conquer someone who…

Why having a "type" is restricting your dating. — One of my friends told me she wanted an active guy who could lead her snowboarding, surfing, and other outdoor activities she enjoys. But of course, her newest boyfriend can't even sustain a 2-hour hike. Some women say they'll never date someone shorter than 5'9. …

I don’t know who people are anymore. — When people use movie lines, they’re using dating techniques. When you’re curious about them because they haven’t contacted you in a few days, they’re probably using the “no contact” rule. Unfortunately, there’s a lot of toxic dating advice out there. …

We're the prize. — I adore women. From your emotional intuition that we men can never rival to your psychological sophistication to just the way you guys decorate your room. You guys are beauty-driven. Everything screams sensitivity and heart and attention to detail. …

You’re ready as it is. — I returned from the movies asking my friend, “You think I should’ve tried to hold her hand? Maybe kiss her?” Damn it! It was such a perfect opportunity. We often beat ourselves up over something we did or didn’t do on our dates. For instance, when Arihanna asked me why…

She’ll come chasing almost every time. — I’ve had more luck with women this year than my previous 29 years combined. I don’t consider myself unattractive or weird, so what the hell? After some serious reflection lately, I’ve realized a simple mindset shift that changed my dating life. Anyone that knows me wouldn’t rate me higher than…

We say we don’t care about what others think — but we do — I’ve finally started drawing some critical comments on my writing. I’m surprised. Not by the hostility, but by the people who told me I was courageous for speaking my mind. I was like, “what?” What courage? I didn’t think too much about the type of responses my stories will receive…

If anything, this type of relationship requires even more transparency to sustain. — She cried while lying in my arms in bed. “I hate how well you treat me.” She finally admitted she’s been lying this whole time. The times when she didn’t pick up my calls and told me she was out with friends — she wasn’t. She was with her ex. …

Walking away is sometimes not self-love, but avoidance. — If you’re reluctant to let go of someone even if they aren’t treating you properly, then you’re a lot like me. Sure, the world is constantly preaching self-love, self-love! Be willing to walk away in an instant when someone mistreats you. Know that there is an ocean of options out…