Wow, all I can add is how I was raised. American country boy, there were things you simply DID NOT DO, otherwise you were taken to the garage and got your bum whipped with a switch off the rose bush, thorns and all. Mitigated my bad behaviour and how. Even now some sixty years later people marvel about my exemplary manners — “Yes sir / No sir / Yes mam / No mam” to anyone I meet, give up seat on public transport, open doors, say hi to everyone I see on the streets. Country boy in The Big City, London Town.