BDSM Toys 101: The Ultimate Guide To Bondage Gear & Furniture

Are you ready to upgrade your bondage play? šŸ”

In this guide you'll learn about all the best bondage toys & bdsm toys that you can use to spice up your kinky lifestyle! šŸŽ€

We'll cover everything from belts to spreader bars, bed restraintsā€¦šŸ•µ

To even fucking machines, cock cages, ball gags, and tools for impact play. āš”

My goal was to collect the best gear for the price all in one place.

We'll start with bondage gear and then the other part of the article will focus on additional BDSM toysā€¦

..you've got your partner restrainedā€¦ now what?

Easiest way to spice it up is by getting some inexpensive gear!Ā šŸŒ¶šŸ”„

But you can also try pegging, forced orgasms or spanking!

Let's jump in to the toy review:


Best Bondage Toys, Gear, Equipment & Furniture

First of all, if you're worried about expenses and are all about learning how to do it yourself and on the cheapā€¦

Then you're looking for Shibari japanese rope bondage.

If you're willing to invest time to get the skills, all you need is ropeĀ :)

But it's tricky!

I personally love dummy versions for lazy bondage:)

And with this guide, it won't be priceyā€¦!

Watch this video reviewing 7 main bondage toys for arm restraint (leg restraint is kinda similar) to understand how the bondage will look like:

Here's my favorite bondage kit though:


7-Piece Bondage BeltsĀ ($17.89)

Here are some nice bondage belts that are proven to work magicā€¦ no need to learn how to tie ropesĀ ;)

Simple and effective.

Tie your partner wherever you want and it will hold!

Plus, very easy to release the partner afterwards!

Ohā€¦and if you need some ideas, check out forced orgasm article.

You could use belt to tie a vibrator to her leg while she's fully restrainedā€¦lots of fun!

Find it on AmazonĀ here.

Bondage Harness Restraint Kit (Belts + Collar with a Lock)Ā ($14.39)

Here's another nice, cheap combo restraint kit.

Just note that it's not as restrictive as it looks in the picture.

You might need to create your own holes in the belts.

Find it on AmazonĀ here.

And it would be nice if you could make the belts go around the chest, but if you got the previous bondage belts then you'll be able to hack it all together nicely.

It looks incredible thoughā€Šā€”ā€Šgreat deal for price.


10-Piece Bondage Restraint Gear KitĀ ($22.96)

Okay, note that this kit won't be super high quality hence the low priceā€¦

But it will allow you to test everything full blown!

Find it on AmazonĀ here.

There is a ball gag, hand, leg restraints, collar, blindfold, nipple clamps and even some rope and tickler!

This is recommended if you're a beginner and just testing the waters!

The only drawback is the smell, it will take a while to get that leather smell out from these toys.


Expanding Spreader Bar With CuffsĀ ($32.59)

This is a great expandable spreader bar for a price and it will hold for even strongest leg owners!

Find it on AmazonĀ here.

Two of the best spreader bar sex positions are standing or squatting and you can go to town.

It's durable and yeah simply does what it's supposed to, not much else to add!


Sexy Bondage Restraint SlingĀ ($13.99)

This is a super durable bondage toy.

There is lots of extra strap length that you use to adjust different positions and it WILL HOLD.

The sling can go behind the back or even shoulders.

Find it on AmazonĀ here.

Very easy to apply and easy enough to remove, but not too easy!Ā :)

Most cheap bondage gear have issue of snapping, but this is the best deal for the price.

Comfortable and will be enough size for even very curvy partners.


Utimi Bed Restraint Kit with Hand & Leg CuffsĀ ($16.99)

If you want true versatility and options while using restraints in the bed, this is the kit you want.

It's designed to work with any kind of mattress and really only limits for restraints is your imagination.

Find it on AmazonĀ here.

There are tons of positions you can use this:

  • apply it to your mattress or if you have a bar on the bed even better. Universal!
  • tie her lying on the back spreading hands and legs.
  • tie the straps together with hands making the legs spread with no mercy

Pretty damn good quality for the price.

If you're interested in more sex furniture (but it's more pricey), I've written a separate guide on it.

You'll learn about bondage chair, spanking bench and queening chair there.


Other BDSM Gear, Toys, Tools & Furniture:

Alright, I've written tons of articles separately on different kinds of BDSM gear.

Here I'll just pick the best toy or tool from every category and link to separate articles if you wanna dig more.

Sounds good? šŸ‘

Let's jump in:


Anal Hooks

Anal hooks are commonly used for predicament bondage and they are restrictive by nature.

Anal hook goes into the butt while the victim is being tied and restricted somewhere being in complete mercy of the partner!

It's tons of fun, but does require quite a bit of knowledge to do correctly.

Be very careful with hygiene and safety though!

Miss Darcy Steel Anal HookĀ ($7.50)

This is the most basic hook for the least price that I could recommend.

Itā€™s not a medical grade surgical steel (too cheap for that), but it comes with good reviews.

Probably not for a long term use, but to test the ground safely, this hook will be perfect.

Find on AmazonĀ here.

Itā€™s relatively small, so good for travel.

Since itā€™s not a great quality steel, make sure you clean it thoroughly and dry well before using.


Fucking Machines

Fucking machines can be anything from sex saddle to thrusting sex machines with dildo attached in one end.

I'm sure you've seen Sybian saddle and those crazy fucking machines in extreme BDSM pornā€¦

They're pretty awesomeā€¦!

While fucking machines are more on expensive endā€¦ and read my guide for more optionsā€¦

This is the best and cheapest quality option for a price!

Not hands freeā€¦but extreme!

Drilldoā€Šā€”ā€Š6-Piece Fucking DrillerĀ ($100)

This is update to the article and I found this Drilldo piece which is an amazing (even if loud) fucking machine that you want to have.

Itā€™s fun and very affordable!! Check it out!

It comes with 6 piecesā€Šā€”ā€Šdriller, tool bag, glasses, vest, Vac U Lock (for dildos) and two dildos.

Find it on AmazonĀ here.

Cock Cages & ChastityĀ Devices

For some reason women love dominating their men with cock cagesā€¦Ā :)

There is not much interest in female chastity devicesĀ :)

They are loved between dominatrix, femdom and submissive guysĀ :)

This is the best and most versatile chastity cage option out there, but read the main article for more options & explanation how to pick cock cages.

Holy Trainer Type Plastic Chastity CageĀ ($18.99)

This is not the original Holy Trainer cage, but a cheaper replica which does get great reviews.

It comes in two sizes: long and short. No crazy measuring needed.

Find it on AmazonĀ here.

Nipple Clamps

It really depends from your partnerā€¦but there are tons of ladies who love the nipple playā€¦

Nipple clamps applied make them super sensitive after removedā€¦and can easily lead to nipple orgasms afterward.

Plus, they look damn hot!

This is the safe and secure starting kit:

Bull Nose Nipple Clips and JewelryĀ ($9.82)

These simple and great-looking nipple clips allow to easily adjust the pressure and rubber tips are gentle to the nipple.

They can be set as painfully tight or as pleasurably gentle as you like!

Find them on AmazonĀ here.

BDSM & SlaveĀ Collars

If you checked before there are tons of combo options with bondage + collarā€¦

For example like this:

Utimi Nipple Clamps With Neck CollarĀ ($13.74)

These are similar to Bull Nose clamps, yet they are even more badass, BDSM looking.

Itā€™s a perfect combo and feels like a quality, well-made sex toy.

Find it on AmazonĀ here.

But if you're seriously in the slave/master playā€¦

You can get this badass chrome slave bondage collar ($40.19) or something more subtleā€¦like leatherā€¦Ā :)

Find it on AmazonĀ here.

These are two high quality extreme optionsā€¦!

If you're looking for cheap, cute and simple collar for looks, just search for DDLG collars.

Daddy Dom / Little Girl play is very popular and it's vanilla version of master/slave relationship. I've written an extensive guide about it.


Ball Gags

Ball gags are both restrictive and humiliating at the same time.

They also look badass when applied!Ā :) They prevent submissive from talking, but doesn't stop them from screaming or moaning.

Pretty good deal, huh?

There are tons of different options from ball gags, to bit gags, inflatable penis gagsā€¦etc.

And there are also tons of combos with nipple clamps and collars, check my guide for full review.

But this is the best recommendation for beginners:

Pipedream Silicone Breathable Ball GagĀ ($19.62)

This is another great beginnerā€™s ball gag which is a small size and has holes in it for easier breathing.

Itā€™s great that straps and the gag are from ultra-hygienic medical grade silicone.

Find it on AmazonĀ here.

Floggers & RidingĀ Crops

Are you into impact play and spanking with your hand just isn't enough anymore?

Well there are lots of optionsā€¦and you can go as crazy or safe as you want.

But for most people floggers are still more about visuals than extreme pain.

And for that reason here's the best option (but read my full flogger guide to learn more):

Genuine Leather FloggerĀ ($15.95)

This is the perfect high quality flogger to start with if youā€™re a beginner.

Itā€™s quite long, looks great, makes a nice slapping noise while not making it too painful.

Find it on AmazonĀ here.

It is made from soft suede which will not sting too much. Great if thatā€™s what youā€™re looking forĀ ;)


Bringing It AllĀ Together

Sheeshā€¦that was fastā€¦

And I didn't even cover butt plugs, vibrators, dildos, pussy pumps or strapons!

Yeah, I know there is still lots to cover in anal play, but to make it short I needed to go quick.

I hope this guide gave you a general good look into BDSM and bondage toys and then you'll keep reading the interesting sections to learn more.

There is tons to learn and it's incredible..!

If you want to never worry about variety and spicy, passionate sex lifeā€Šā€”ā€Šthis is exactly what you should do!Ā :)

Have fun, stay safeā€¦and cheers! šŸ·