Clit Orgasm 101: The Ultimate Guide To Clitoris Mastery

Whether you're a man learning more about clit… 👨

How to find it… and what it is… 🤯

Or a woman trying to discover the soul-shaking clitoral orgasms…😲💄💋

This guide is for you! 👍

You'll learn the basics about clit… 👓

Then there will be tons of stories of people describing their best techniques to clit orgasms and the stimulation…

Here's how the guide is organised:

  • What is the clit and how to find it?
  • What Are The Best Sex Toys To Reach Clit Orgasms?
  • Other People Best Tips & Techniques For Clitoral Stimulation

Sounds good? 👍

Let's jump in:


What is the clit and how to find it?

Here are few things you must know about clitoris.

First: clit is like iceberg, you can see only tip of it, but there are long clitoris “legs” that go to the sides of vagina even reaching till the rectum.

This is the reason why some women can orgasm only from anal stimulation.

Their clit legs simply are being tickled anally and it's extremely pleasurable.

If you see the picture, then the first one (to the left) shows the clitoral hood where the clitoris is hiding.

You can pull the skin back and expose it. But the picture (to the right) shows how clitoris looks all together.

It's not just the tip.

And when people talk about vaginal, anal orgasms — actually it all happens 99% because of the clitoris.

Clitoris has over 8000 nerve endings, which is the reason why there are so many shades to different kind of orgasms women can have.

But the main source of female orgasms is the clit. Direct or indirect.

For example, many different studies have shown that around 80% of women don’t orgasm from intercourse.

If you wanna dive deeper, watch this excellent clitoris + female sexual anatomy video:


What Are The Best Sex Toys To Reach Clit Orgasms?

Frankly, the easiest way to orgasm or make a woman orgasm for the first time is with the help of sex toys.

They are super nice vibrators or even vibrator/dildo combos that make the orgasming practically inevitable.

It will be hard not to orgasm with them.

I'll first cover pussy pumps, then clit suckers (clit pumps) and finally two of the best vibrators.

One will be simple, affordable vibrator, other will be rabbit vibrator (clit stimulator + dildo). 🖕

🖕 First, if you want to cheat and make pussy a lot more sensitive — there are things like pussy pumps and clit pumps.

While I wrote the separate guide for pussy pumps… Pussy pump is a device that you place on top of pussy and pump creates vacuum and uses suction to enlarge the genitalia.

After taking the pump off — the pussy will be that much more sensitive.


Doc Johnson Pussy Pump ($17.82)

This is a simple and effective pump made by Doc Johnson.

The price is great and it will do exactly what it advertises.

The product is made from hard plastic which makes it rigid and effective.

You’ll enjoy the pleasure the most if you pump slowly and take breaks between each pump.

Find it on Amazon here.

The next thing that I really recommend is clit pumps.

While pussy pumps are much more well known, clitoral pumps or suckers are more subtle but will make orgasms happen with a breeze.

I can recommend two models, one is great price, while other is more pricey but proven to create orgasms with ease!


Clitoral & Nipple Sucking Vibrator ($29.69)

You can use this thing for both clitoris and nipple sucking sensations!

This bad-boy has 6 vibration modes and makes for an excellent couples toy.

It’s intense, the only downside it’s loud… But great for the price.

Find it on Amazon.

Womanizer Pro40 Vibrator & Clit Sucker($129.99)

Womanizer is the most famous and also most expensive from clit sucker pumps.

But oh boy, it works.

Just read the reviews, over 550 positive experiences cannot be wrong.

It’s a beautiful piece of art and pleasure:

Find it on Amazon here.

While the sensation it gives is not really a suction, the best explanation I found is: it’s like a blowjob to clitoris.

The device has light air suction and pull-back that gives the kind of soft sensations that no other toy can.

When using this you’ll orgasm fast and intense.


The Best Vibrator & Dildo For Intense Female Orgasm

I've written a comprehensive vibrator and dildo guides, but here I'll just mention two best models, one from each category.

Here I included the most affordable models because I know when you're new you don't want to spend a lot as you are just testing the waters.

I got you:


Bombex Bullet Vibrator ($14.99)

This is a great, simple bullet vibrator for the price.

It comes with 12 vibrating patterns and is 100% water-proof.

There is also a handy ring to make sure you don’t lose it.

The only cons are that it will charge out quicker and it gets hot quickly.

Still, great starting option for the price.

Find it on Amazon here.

PaloQueath G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator ($26.99)

This toy comes in a discreet box, and is #1 best-seller in the category.

People love it — it hits all the right spots, it’s waterproof and will give 3 hours of play before recharging.

It has 9 vibration modes and a quiet motor. A great buy.

Find it on Amazon here.

Other People Best Tips & Techniques For Clitoral Stimulation

Here are some successful people stories and tips how to achieve clitoral orgasms either by yourself or during the intercourse.

I hope these stories will give you inspiration to experiment more for yourself:


“First time clit orgasm (32, female), only used to be able to cum from penetration”

“I’ve had a wide variety of sex partners, male and female, and I’ve only ever been able to cum from penetration.

I could never even effectively masterbate, because I could never get the leverage I needed to replicate the sensation of being fingered or having sex.

A few weeks ago, I was lying in bed with my boyfriend and we were fooling around.

After awhile, he started rubbing my clit.

I normally don’t respond to that well, so he was mostly pushing down on my pubic mound right above it.

Suddenly I felt really different, and I felt my face get hot and I felt this weird sensation that I never had.

It felt like that feeling of being tickled, and hitting that point where you’re like ‘holy shit I’m going to die if they keep tickling me’ but in a really good way.

I really had never felt it like that, and for a moment I was afraid that something had broken or I was going to pee.

Then all my senses kind of went numb for a second, and I came.

Or at least that’s what I’m assuming.

After that, I would try to masterbate all the time.

I think about it constantly. I masterbate like, 2 or 3 times a night.

I use a vibrator on my clit, and if I’m lucky, I can have that sensation again.

It feels like cumming from penetration, but different.

Not necessarily better, I’m just obsessed because it’s novel, and I can actually make myself cum.

There are still some nights that it just doesn’t work for some reason though.”


“Sometimes pressure in the right spot is better than rubbing or vibrating the clit. “

The pee thing? If you are worked up, you can’t pee.

But you can do something you’ve likely heard of but never experienced — female ejaculation.

Some women think it’s pee, but it is not.

The composition of female ejaculate has no urine in it.

There is a gland inside of you that has some female ejaculate at all times, and when you get worked up really good, your heart rate increases and the increased blood flow sends a signal to the gland.

It produces large quantities of your ejaculate fluid in a short time.

You get the urge that you are going to urinate, but if you keep going, you’ll come and ‘squirt”.

The after feel is intense.

Go with it and you’ll be very happy.”

Source: ifilllotsofrxs


Techniques for clitoral stimulation during sexual intercourse


“Hands or toys mixed in with penetration are the easiest way.”

“Girl on top and grinding rather than bouncing works well for many.

I can achieve clitoral orgasms in mission sometimes — but it’s usually dependent on the mans anatomy.

If he’s thick enough he will push/pull my labia as he thrusts which in turn indirectly causes a “jerking off” type motion of the clit (the lips indirectly manipulate the hood in just the right way).

I have also been able to achieve clitoral orgasms in reverse cowgirl — but again, it’s dependent on the mans anatomy for me.

In this position I was able to lean over far enough that I was rubbing my clit on his balls.

But everyone is different — what works with one partner may not work with another.

Just have fun trying different things and don’t let it bum you out if you don’t find it.

Many women don’t orgasm during PIV — that doesn’t mean it’s not all still enjoyable.”

Source: ShesSoInky


“My wife riding on top.”

“And for me instead laying flat in bed she wants me to make 45° angle with my upper body and she’s leaning forward.

I suck her nipples and she rubs her clit on my pubic bone.

Normally she orgasms this way.”

Source: normalboyz1


“Missionary.. I use my thumb. Lightly.”

“Doggy.. I try and reach around with my middle finger.

Also… maybe let her rub it while you focus on the penetration?

She’ll know exactly what to aim for and how hard.. nothing wrong with that!

Also… just what is comfortable for her.”

Source: BlueJaysFan69


“In Missionary, angle yourself higher up against her body. “

“It’s called coital alignment.

It can be awkward as hell at first, but it definitely works.

You basically change your angle of entry so your shaft put pressure against her clitoris as you thrust.

It works better if her legs are either flat or wrapped around you, but not pushed back.

You might need to change up your stroke, but she’ll let you know when you get it right.

In Cowgirl, if she can go all the down, leaning forward and grinding her pelvis against yours does it for a lot of women, but the back and forth sliding kind of fucking isn’t always as spectacular for the guy.

Worth trying though.

Standing face to face is good if your heights are compatible.

It’s basically like vertical coital alignment Missionary position.

For a lot of people, while standing sex can be pleasurable, they’ll have a hard time reaching orgasm while using their legs to support themselves.

If that’s the case with either you or your partner, have some fun with it, but switch up to something more comfortable to nail it home.

If all else fails, like you suggested, don’t be afraid to get your fingers in on the play there.

Her clitoris is often critical to pleasurable sex and many positions just don’t engage the glans very much.

Pay attention to how she rubs herself and replicate it.

  • Does she stroke it?
  • Squeeze it?
  • Fan it?
  • Slap it?
  • Combination?

Keep your fingers wet and your touch light until you’re sure she wants it harder and/or faster.

An added bonus is that putting pressure over her public bone or clitoris while you’re inside her can sometimes amplify the friction, heat, and “fullness” that she feels from your penis.

Be creative and have fun!”

Source: D_Mon_Taurus


Bringing It All Together

Okay, enough reading!

Now time to take action and learn more about your or your partner's body.

In the end — it's all about experimentation and self-exploration.

Yes, you can read lots from these stories, but…

EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT.

Your pussy, clitoris, arousal is different than someone else…

And there is no shortcut to this (except helpful sex toys hah) — just get busy and enjoy…

I always say that orgasms and sex is the most pleasant hobby every person has :)

Oh…and if you're a guy reading this — check this helpful how to satisfy a woman guide. It's not just about clitoris stimulation..it's about foreplay, arousal…

The orgasms and arousal happens in the brain…after all…

Cheers 🍷