Cock Cage 101: Do You Know Which Are The Best Male Chastity Devices?

Let's talk about cock cages. 🍆

Some men think it's weird, some think it's exciting…🍌

Some couples don't know what to think, but they are curious to experiment and introduce more variety in the bedroom.👮🚓👮‍♀️

In this guide you'll learn:

  • all about the cock cages,
  • what they are
  • why people use them
  • and how to shop for your own first male chastity device.
Maybe not this extreme, but this one is pretty badass!

Oh yes, and I also include real people stories about their experiences with cock cages that will let you understand how to introduce this dominance play in your own bedroom.

Here's how the guide is organised:

  • Introduction: What is a cock cage & what's the purpose of using it?
  • What are the best cock cages & male chastity devices and how to shop for one?
  • What are the other people best tips and experiences using penis cages?

Sounds good? 👍

Let's jump in:


Introduction: What is a cock cage & what’s the purpose of using it?

Well, here's the Wikipedia's definition:

“Chastity belts in BDSM may be used as part of a practice of orgasm control, to prevent the wearer from engaging principally in sexual intercourse without the permission of the dominant, who acts as “keyholder”.
A chastity belt will also prevent other sexual activity such as masturbation and oral sex involving the wearer’s genitals.
Chastity belts may be worn by both men and women as part of BDSM play.
A chastity belt may be worn for the duration of a sex play, for a limited period or as a long-term arrangement.”

Cock cages is a type of chastity play usually used in BDSM femdom and dominatrix play where the woman locks man's penis in a cage.

The appeal is that a man is giving up the control to his woman.

There's just something sexy and dark about it.

She decides how long she wears it — be it few days or few weeks.

While man is wearing the chastity device he cannot really get erect without pain, he cannot have sex or cannot masturbate.

Female domme is controlling situation and submissive man is complying.

If you get the right cock cage size then erections won’t be painful, yet it will be uncomfortable and noticeable.

Watch this nice short BBC Three movie about guy sharing his experience wearing penis cage for over 100 days:


How To Put On A Cock Cage?

Usually cock cages are put on the penis and there is lock that goes behind the balls to prevent cage from coming off.

Cock cage goes on man's penis with a lock on top.

Keychain and key goes around woman's neck safely stored.

The biggest decision with chastity cages is the size.

Instead of focusing on getting inescapable cage your focus should be on finding a comfortable cage.

Which size of cage should you get?

The main size you need to get right is with the main ring that goes around your testicles and your penis.

And it’s though to answer since everyone is different and it's tough to measure it accurately.

But after the first one you’ll know better with the next version.

If you’re beginner then try going for bigger to avoid pain when you’re getting erection.

Also the popular chastity cage like CB 6000 comes with multiple main rings of different sizes, so it does make a great beginner's first buy.

Afterwards, you'll know better and can get some cooler looking metal or spiked cock cages without worrying about size.

🖕 A pro tip is to lube the cage with baby oil gel or a silicone lube. This will help with any potential pain.

What are the best cock cages & male chastity devices and how to shop for one?

Let's jump in and discuss pros and cons of different cages, shall we?


Holy Trainer Type Plastic Chastity Cage ($18.99)

This is not the original Holy Trainer cage, but a cheaper replica which does get great reviews.

It comes in two sizes: long and short. No crazy measuring needed.

Find it on Amazon here.

The cage comes with four different main rings so as a beginner you can just try them all and get the one that fits.

There is a whole in the end for peeing, it's unnoticeable under the clothing and comes with two sets of locks with two keys.

It does everything that a good male chastity device is supposed to do.

It could be better done, but for the price it's great.


HappyGo Male Chastity Device ($20.89)

What's great about this cage is that you can pick between three sizes: 1.57", 1.77", 1.96".

Other than that there are 3 size main rings that each cage comes together.

There are tons of positive reviews how everything just works.

HappyGo is a new contender to cage market and definitely an affordable option to consider.

The metal cage is comfortable to wear for long periods of time without discomfort or irritated skin.

Find it on Amazon here.

It will be almost impossible to get out of this without a key — perfect for D&S play.


Silicone Cock Cage ($19.99)

If you're looking for medical silicone safe cock cage, this is a beautiful and high quality piece.

Find it on Amazon here.

It comes in one cage size (two colors: black and pink).

But it has tons of customisation options for the main ring.

It does feel like a quality made product:

  • easy to clean, easy to pee through
  • very soft and comfortable to wear

If your penis is larger than average though, it probably won't fit. But for most cases it will work well.

A great piece for the price.


Utimi Male Chastity Cage ($32.99)

If you're buying the next cock cage, this comes really recommended.

Just note: buy this if your penis is bigger than average. If it’s small then this cage could be too big for you.

Even if it comes with 3 rings, they are pretty big.

Metal cages look really sexy and if you get the sizing right with this one it will be comfortable.

The only big downside is that this cage won't be great for long term wearing.

Find it on Amazon here.

It's hard to conceal it, and since metal is heavy you might run into some issues going around it.

But then again, every man is different and reading reviews you'll hear different experiences.


CB 6000 Male Chastity Device ($84.46)

This is one of the more popular cock lock models.

It's more pricey, but it's solidly done and comes with 5 ring sizes, that will fit everyone. Cannot go wrong with that.

The CB-6000 is made of medical grade polycarbonate material.

You should get this is your penis size is not that big. For bigger penis go with Utimi model, for smaller size go for this CB6000.

Find it on Amazon here.

It comes with three keys, lock and will feel a premium quality.

Be careful to check if you're getting quality model when it arrives, as some people report receiving not so good cage.


Locked In Lust Vice Cock Cage ($129.99)

Locked in Lust is another famous cock cage model that comes with:

  • 1 cock cage
  • 4 ring variations
  • 4 spacer-locking pin variations
  • 3 anti-pullout variations
  • a pullout cap
  • 1 padlock and key set

Basically you can construct the perfect cock cage for you with all these ingredients, it's pretty awesome.

If you want to make sure that cock cage is both comfortable and 100% secure, this is the one. Oh, and you can pick from four colors: purple, clear, pink, chrome.

Find it on Amazon here.

It's a good for long-term wear and will stand for the test of time.


Humbler Male Chastity Device ($25.77)

I felt tempted to include humbler for a more complete BDSM domination.

You can use it in addition with a cock cage while spanking and prevent your submissive from standing.

Find it on Amazon here.

This toy is designed to curve and fit right below the butt.

Check this nice review video to see how it looks:


YiFend Spiked Cock Cage ($37.99)

Okay, this last one is fun.

If you are looking for some badass looking BDSM cock cage — you'll love this one.

Find it on Amazon here.

It's definitely uncomfortable and will hurt…! If that's what you're looking for… get this one!

It comes in three sizes, make sure you measure it right as this cage won't give you any forgiveness.


Male Chastity Stories: What are the other people best tips and experiences using penis cages?

I hope these stories will help you to better understand the appeal and how to actually implement chastity in your sexual kink play:


“What Was Your Experience With Male Chastity Cage Or Belt?”

“#1 — Did it live up to your expectations?

Overall, yes.

The reality is more awkward than the fantasy, but it’s still super hot.

It can be more frustrating in a non-sexual way than you expect.

But go too long and you start affecting happiness and concentration, and at least for cis women, going too long can actually kill your sex drive.

If it’s something you want to do regularly, it can take some trial and error.

#2 — Was it just for a day or something or were you locked for an extended period of time?

Just a day in the belt at a time (it’s a leather belt, steel belts for cis women are expensive and I’d prefer piercings), but denied for longer (a couple weeks for us).

I firmly believe that if you need a cage or a belt to stay dedicated to a commitment you make to your partner, there’s either a problem with the rule or a problem with the dynamic

Using belts/cages can be a great way to add something to a dynamic that’s already there or establish a new one.

#3 — Did it hurt?

It’s uncomfortable (belts are reportedly more uncomfortable than cages, anyway) but not painful.

It’s mostly uncomfortable when you move positions, apparently, but you get used to it otherwise.

#4 — Was it with your partner or a dominatrix?

With my partner.

#5 — If it was with your partner, did she enjoy the experience as well? I’d be really grateful if one of you could help me out.

Yes, it was great!

Chastity is also a kink of mine, but most people like to please their partners.

It can be difficult for some to understand that you can still make your partner happy without making them orgasm.

If you have a partner willing to do it it can be a good way to get closer and it can still be fun for her, even if it’s not a turn on as such.”

Source: hopefulprotolinguist


“Welcome to the wonderful world of chastity.”

“My story is that my wife (now Mistress) and I started fooling around with chastity a few years ago and now I’m locked up pretty much permanently.

We decided that we like a 24/7 D/s arrangement, but I’m not as submissive if I’m allowed to orgasm.

I kink really hard on tease and denial, and the longer I go without being allowed to cum, the more submissive I get.

As a result, she decided all of my orgasms would be ruined except on rare occasions.

It started out once every couple of weeks, but she’s intentionally stretching it out now, so it’s more like once every six weeks.

Anyways, pegging is part of our play but not the main focus.

Usually she prefers edging me with her hands and then locking me back up.

However, I have been able to orgasm from anal stimulation while still locked.

A little bit of penile stimulation helps, even if it’s a vibrator on the cage.

If you two are keen on you becoming her bottom 100% of the time, I’d say she should start training you.

Start out by adding some penile stimulation (stopping right as you orgasm) and then gradually less and less over time until you can consistently orgasm just from anal stimulation.

Good luck, and have fun!”

Source: onlyshecums


“Tips for Women To Help The Man Start With Chastity Cage.”

“Find out what specific aspects of it appeal to him.

  • Does he like the tease and denial aspect?
  • The submissive part of it?
  • The part of letting you control his orgasms or even access to touching himself?

These questions will help you figure it out, but here are some other things you can do:

The two of you can shop online for chastity cages.

Perhaps the thought of you picking one out for him is a turn on for him or both of you.

Once you have one picked out, you can set ground rules.

For example, you can hold the key, and he can keep one for emergencies (some freeze it in ice, or otherwise find a method to make it available, but not without the keyholder (you) knowing.

I find it very hot when my wife wears the key on a necklace or bracelet.

Every time I see it, I’m reminded that she’s in charge.

As other people have said, you can make him “earn” a release or orgasm.

Maybe it’s doing nice things for you, or maybe for every x number of orgasms he gives you, he gets one.

Maybe you let him think he’s going to get out, only to change your mind at the last minute.

It will drive him crazy.

Teasing is very important!
Once he is locked up, you should acknowledge him/the cage on a daily basis.

It doesn’t have to be anything major, maybe it’s a text asking how it feels to be locked up, sexy snaps, etc.

Locking him up without any sort of teasing/acknowledgement on a semi-regular basis is neglect.

Learn about edging and ruined orgasms - bringing him right to the edge and stopping, then lock him back up.

Rubbing his balls/cage, grinding on him, giving him a blow job with the cage on are all wonderful teases!

A funny thing happens when a man’s penis is locked up- his behavior will change, he will become more attentive to your needs.

My wife loves it not necessarily for the sexual part, but because I become a better listener, I help out around the house more, etc.

Odds are, since he can’t come, all of his sexual energy will be focused on satisfying you.

Lastly keep in mind that as his keyholder, he is putting A LOT of trust in you!

The fact that he felt safe enough to mention this to you and potentially want you to be his keyholder says a lot about what he thinks of you.

Do some research, talk to him, and it will be a wonderful experience for both of you!”

Source: Ayayron99


Bringing It All Together

That's it folks…

Oh and if you want to be part of kinky chastity community, check out this Chastity Subreddit (NSFW).

You'll get a lot more ideas, see lots of people pictures of them using ones.

It's always nicer when you know you're not alone out there.

Have fun!