Rimming 101: How To Eat Ass & Give A Rim Job Like A Pro

Yes, you can eat her pussy…

But you can also eat her ass…! 👌

And this goes for both genders — ass licking, anilingus, rimming — whatever you call it just adds another flavour to the sex.

There are tons of sensitive nerve endings around the butt hole that really enjoy light stimulation.


What is rimming or a rim job?

Rimming or Rim Job is a process of someone eating another person's butt in a sexual way. 🍑👅😝

🎲 The same as with pussy eating or blowjob rimming can serve as a nice foreplay to sex…

Or a nice foreplay to anal sex in this sequence:

That's pretty much all there is to anal play :)

And rimming is one part of the whole play… and that's what we'll focus on here.

After you're done with this guide you'll be a rimming expert and know exactly how to eat ass safely and properly!

I'm including tons of people stories so you have a ton of anal sex and ass licking tips.

Here's what we're going to cover:

  • Is Rimming Safe?
  • How To Do Anal Douche (butt cleaning)?
  • Do guys enjoy rimming as much as girls do?

Let's start with this nice rimming story so you know what kind of pleasures are hiding there:


“Rimming — my quiet boyfriend moans like a bitch in heat”

“So it’s a regular Tuesday night and we’re getting down to business.

After being tied up then released for some good old fashioned banging I go down for my daily dose of cock but it’s just not enough this time, so I ask politely if I can go down lower.

Oh. My. God.

I have not known true beauty before this moment.

My sexy bf spread open in front of my face with his beautiful long legs over my shoulders and his dick rock hard in front of me … damn!

I lap away at that perfect ass like it’s a puddle in the desert, and he goes BERSERK.

I have never seen him shake and twitch and tremble like that, even with the lightest butterfly touch of my tongue.

Gotta hold on to his thighs in order to keep going.

And the sounds he made!!

Usually, he’s pretty quiet during sex, apart from quiet moans and dirty talk.

But this time he is moaning and gasping uncontrollably with his mouth wide open.

I lick his ass and stroke his cock for the happiest 10 minutes of my life, then he cums, hard … and keeps shaking like he’s having a fit for another 2 minutes!

Then makes out with me for a bit, and passes the fuck out. He told me later that that’s the most intense orgasm he’s ever had.

I have never had so much fun, or been so proud of myself haha.”

Source: mangosmakemewet


Is Rimming Safe? ⚠️

Like any sexual activity, there is some risk involved.

Anything butt related is the most dangerous of all things, there are the most germs and the one eating ass has increased risk of getting herpes, certain type of STI's and other viruses.

But this is the same as with any oral-anal, skin-to-skin contact — so kissing, eating pussy…

The danger comes with unknown partner.

So unless you are super safe, have both been tested that you are free from any sexual diseases, better avoid rimming or any pussy eating, giving blowjobs.

What professionals will recommend for extra safety is to use dental dams.

Find them on Amazon here.

They are basically a simple sheet of latex that you put over the area as you do ass licking or pussy eating.

Personally I hate them and they are deal breakers for me.

Here's another answer..


Is there any danger of sexually transmitted infections if we're both tested and clean? What could I contract from giving analingus to her?

“You could contract whatever bacteria she has in her digestive system that help her break down her food (or other ones she has that aren’t helpful, specifically, but just hang out in that nutrient rich environment freeloading).

Some of those make their way all the way through the later parts of the digestive system to arrive at the anus alive.

Then you pick them up on your tongue and they can become part of your own system, sometimes with a traumatic takeover.

E. Coli is one bug, for example, that some people have in their digestive system which causes others serious distress when they encounter it.

The flip side of this is that it’s your wife, so if y’all have been intimate/sharing food/sleeping naked together/etc for years, you’ve likely has a fair amount of exposure to most of her flora over the years.”

Source: Jitzgrrl


Since I have a serious partner, all we do is make sure is we're both clean, take a fresh shower…

If I do any ass fingering I simply put a condom on my finger to ensure that nothing that goes in the ass goes into her pussy.

What also helps is that we're both vegan.
This has the benefit of ass being fairly good smelling (and clean), pussy in general smells better… and semen tastes better too. Tons of pornstars and we also were pleasantly surprised with this side benefit.

When you eat red meats, or processed food, it takes a very long time for your body to process them and this will affect your butt related activities.

Stick with a finger in to make sure there's nothing close nearby…

If you want to be super safe you should do anal douching with enema.


How To Do Anal douche

Do a deep cleaning with enema bulb. It’s simple.

Get a bulb with a nozzle, that you can fill with warm, clean (drinking) water.

Lube the nozzle, and splash the water inside your anus.

Leave it there for a while to let the water loose up any solid matter that could be in your rectum. Push the water out.

Repeat for 3x — and your butt will be as clean as you can get!

Keep baby vibes or paper towels nearby just in case you need them.

Oh and get a nice anal lube as butt doesn't naturally lubricate and saliva won't be enough.

That's about it ;)

Here's another advice…


“I’m very curious about analingus (rim-jobs), but doesn’t it taste, well… Shitty?”

“Always even when you are not licking an asshole… Hygiene.

Both for you and your partner.

I’ve found it to be one of those things you just… do.

In the spur of the moment with your special someone…

…it’s sexy and dirty while also intimate, which I am into.

A freshly washed asshole is advised but feel her out.

Chances are that she wont let you do it if she is a bit backed up and not feeling sexy there… so go for it.

I usually massage my SO’s asshole while doing her doggy to see how she feels and gently slide my thumb in.

If she reaches her hand back when I am massaging the rim… that usually means “Stop, stop… I had tacos.” (or if this is uncharted territory it means “No. I’m not ready for that.”)

If there is nothing on my thumb we are good to go.

This all being done in a sexy manner… not like I’m testing for PH levels with my thumb for um science.”

Source: Anonymous


“Do guys enjoy rimming as much as girls do?”

Since there is a strong bias towards rimming being strictly something that gays do, let's debunk this myth first!

Truth is, guys have a lot more reasons to enjoy anything butt sex related than girls and if they are just open-minded enough they will unleash so much pleasure in there…!


“Highly underrated sex act, I think the fear of liking anal stimulation=you’re the big gay makes a lot of guys miss out on an extremely pleasurable experience.”


“I’m a guy who’s been rimmed.

I always have loved it.

Makes cum hard.”

Source: EVILGR33NRNGR


“Holy shit, being rimmed by my wife is one of my favorite sexual activities.”

Source: norcal_woo_woo


“The noises my husband makes when I fool around back there keep me coming back for more.

He’d eat my ass hourly if I let him.”

Source: alittlebirdy1


“I looooove when dudes are into ass play. When I peg my bf his dick gets harder than I thought possible.”

“Look into the prostate milking technique.

Done properly it feels orgasmic without ejaculation.

Like I can feel his cock tremble and throb with orgasm without ejaculation.

It’s an amazing thing to behold.”

Source: kiwi725


“I think guys probably enjoy it more than girls if they comfortable enough with themselves.

I know my boyfriend clearly enjoys it more than I do.”

Source: yesmissy


“As a male I can tell you rimming & prostate milking is the single most amazing physical experience you can possibly ever have. “

“After you fight of the odd sensations of thinking you are going to pee all over the place, and the slight discomfort of your prostate feeling so full, a warmth begins to build up, almost an itch you cant scratch.

It builds and builds and builds until all of a sudden Electrical impulses radiate all over your whole body and you shake followed by radiating warmth, and then total collapse.

Its all you imagine a woman’s G-sport orgasm might be like and possibly more due to the emotional involvement required to achieve this feat.

And the best part, because it was not a standard orgasm you still have a full orgasm left to go, but your body may be so tired you just go to sleep instead.”

Source: drunken_klingon


The Best Rimming & Rim Job Tips From Other People


“Get a good glass dildo or butt plug. “

“They’re shareable because they aren’t porous.

Find it on Amazon here.

You can heat them up in water, cool them in the freezer, and as a man who had a woman bend me over a couch and use it on me, they feel amazing.

Just make sure you properly sterilize them if you share.”

Source: lightspeed7


Here's a nice video where pornstars share their experiences and feelings about rim jobs:

Main takeaway: make sure your ass is clean and doesn't smell!


“Try This If You Want To Eat Ass Properly”

“Blow him with your mouth only, no hands on dick. go as deep as you can, then a bit deeper.

You might not be able to go all the way down, but need to make sure the head of his penis is in your throat

The feeling of the pressure of the throat on the head + warmth + moist environment is close to the feeling of a vagina during her orgasm.

With the palm of one hand, grab his balls and massage them.

Find that point of pressure that’s right between extreme pleasure and pain, but keep it on the pleasure side

With the fingers of that same hand massage his perineum (no man’s land between his balls and his anus).

Then push deep and go all over until you find where you get the most reaction.

The prostate is right behind the wall of skin, there, somewhere.

With the other hand massage his anus and the whole area.

Push a finger in when he starts to pushing his anus against your fingers.

Please use lots of saliva (or lube).
If you don’t, he won’t realize it in the heat of the moment, but he’ll be literally butt hurt for the next few days.

Alternative method, if you need your finger for taking care of his balls, use the thumb of the butt hand to take care of his perineum.

I personally prefer the first one, because the more fingers massaging the perineum the better).

Have fun!”

Source: fap_fap_fap_


“I got my partner a basic prostate massager as a step between fingers and pegging. “

“He’d always say that we need to buy a harness and fool around, but then I’d finger him, he’d cum, and say “never mind, they’re so expensive, I like this, with just you”.

But my wrists and jaw gets sore before I’m done enjoying his ass, so I wanted to bring a toy in.

I settled on a massager that can be worn as a butt plug, I figured worse comes to worse, if he takes one look at it and says no, I can use it instead.

The first few times I used it with him, it was mid-rim job, once my wrist and jaw seized up, I’d ask if I can use the toy on him and he’d happily say “yeah, ok”.

But I always had to initiate, so I got the impression he was doing it mostly for my pleasure and to save my joints.

A few weeks later I’m taking a shower and as I get in I look down and the massager is just sitting on the floor of the shower.

I give it a proper wash since shower bases are kinda gross, and put it back in its cotton bag in the bedroom drawer.

A few days later, it’s sitting (clean) on the bathroom counter.

I can’t explain it, but just knowing he was using it when home alone was so hot.

I bought it for his pleasure and he was giving it a proper try.

My partner’s birthday was a few months ago and our birthday tradition has always been to give the birthday person an hour long sensual massage then oral until they cum.

So I get the oil and candles and he strips to his underpants and lies on his stomach.

Naturally I give his arse a squeeze before I start the massage proper, and he’s got the prostate massager in, acting all nonchalant like he doesn’t have a sexy secret in his ass…

…the massage part of the evening didn’t last long.”

Source: DearyDairy


“Only really did rim job once with an ex but was always really turned on if she started licking my balls and perineum, the closer she got the more I hoped she’d go for it. “

“When we finally tried it that was amazing but after that she told me to turn over onto all fours and licked me from behind while jerking me backwards (kind of like milking a cow).

I can not express how amazing this felt (although your first paragraph came close).

I seriously still fantasize about it years later.

The same girl would also sometimes push on my perineum when jerking me off or if she was riding reverse cowgirl.

Definitely an interesting sensation and I think you might be able to stimulate the prostate that way as well if you push quite hard.

I don’t really think there’s an incorrect way to do it though, just match it to the mood (if you’re being having rough sex then be a little rougher, if you’re teasing him then be soft and gentle).

Personally I love it when a girl is being really gentle and teasing but then every once in a while squeezes my ass or bites my thigh quite roughly, like she’s having trouble holding herself back.

Finally, if you are going to (or want to) try penetrating him, whether with a tongue, finger etc.,

It’s probably a good idea to just straight up talk to him about it (if you haven’t already, not sure if that’s what you meant by “mentioning it”).

Maybe he feels very differently about penetration than he does about stimulation, but either way it’s best to have talked about it ahead of time and you can both express what you’re hoping to get out of it, what you definitely don’t want, what you’re curious to try etc.

Having that conversation beforehand can make it a lot easier and more relaxing in the heat of the moment.”

Source: Pandam4n


“I used to rim my ex and we both loved it. “

“Thing is, he initiated it the first time and we went from there.

That said, you do still have to get him going before slowly inching your way down that way and reading his body language/moans for signs of hesitation from him.

You have to go down on him like you’re trying to suck the soul from his body.

Real wet and sloppy.

As he starts bucking and moaning, slightly change the rhythm by going a bit further south each time you bob.

Make it subtle and not abrupt.

As you’re making your way south to include his balls in this soul sucking blow job, you can take your hands slowly (nothing can be abrupt!) and let them make their way under his thighs.

Your hands are oh so casually gently caressing under his thighs while you lick and drool on his balls.

Once your hands are there and he’s moaning in pleasure, very gently apply some pressure.

If he wants his ass licked, girl he will bring his knees to his chest.

You get him going and you can most likely pick up on his body language of whether or not its ok that day.

Its not always a good moment to have your booty hole licked, so keep that in mind just in case he does hesitate or clench up during your BJ.

Maybe it just wasnt a good moment for him and maybe try again another time.

One time (in the height of passion BJ) I just whispered “can I get in there?” as I squeezed his ass.

He quickly gave me an “uh huh” and positioned himself appropriately.

Its fun!!! Good luck!”


“Do vibrating rimming butt plugs exist?”

For rimming purposes prostate massagers usually don't work very well..

But B-vibe makes high quality vibrating butt plug for rimming.

It's pricey, but does the job splendidly…!

Or just use something cheap like PaloQueath ($19.99) vibrating butt plug.

Find it on Amazon Here.

“Even after thorough cleaning, my boyfriend’s ass still smells. I would like to rim. What to do?”


“The hair retains odor. “

“Going to have to shave, pluck, or wax that ass.

Also if the smell is lingering in the hairs, a quick swipe with an alcohol wipe might work.

If you don’t have rubbing alcohol, hand sanitizer and a washcloth will work.

It will probably burn for like 2 seconds but it will definitely kill any lingering smell in the hair.

Source: I’m gross and I do this with my armpits/pubes to kill BO when I don’t have time for a shower/full shave.

If you’re going to butt chug vodka, I recommend heavily diluting it.

About 8:1 will cut down the alcohol percentage to about 5%. It will burn a whole lot less on the way out.

Not that I speak from experience or anything.”

Source: trashlikeyourmom


Bringing It All Together

That's it folks!

A thorough (hopefully) guide to rimming!

I hope after reading this you're encouraged and excited to go for some nice ass licking!

You should! It's amazing!

It's a start towards anal sex pleasures…

Especially for guys, prostate milking is the next great step.

If you're a guy and was always jealous of woman's full-body orgasms… prostate milking is the easiest way to get them yourself ;)

Hint, hint. 👊