心理學家也失控

戴公主 Dairy Princess
Nov 6 · 7 min read

在一個婚禮上,我遇見一位大學的師姐。扌扌當時剛一歲,而我當乳牛的生涯亦暫告一段落。我已有一段時間沒有和那位師姐聯絡,但透過Facebook 的資訊,我得知她已有兩名兒子,分別兩歲及五個月大。

從她在Facebook 上一家四口幸福滿溢的家庭照,我猜她生活應該相當美滿,不過出於禮貌,我還是公式地問她:「你好嗎?」

她在我耳旁輕聲回答:「不太好⋯⋯」

我沒想過她這樣回應,當下呆了一呆。網絡世界與現實果然有很大分別,人們往往只喜歡把美好的一面上載。

我強作冷靜,好歹我也是個心理學家,理應習慣面對那些不美好的一面。

我問她:「是因為照顧兒子太辛苦嗎?我記得你第一胎是餵母乳的,想必第二胎也是吧?餵人奶的日子實在是非常難捱。」

她嗤一聲笑了出來。「餵奶?哈哈,是有一點難捱,不過我已習慣了。」

她再一次把聲音壓低,然後在我耳邊說:「你懂的,我現在看醫生了。」

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戴公主 Dairy Princess

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兒童心理學家,「公主變乳牛」網誌作者; child psychologist, originally a princess but has sadly turned into first a cow and then a T-rex after having kids

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