Sure. “Choke me, daddy” et al.
Bardot Smith
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I do agree with you on the bdsm issue however, to a degree. It’s a psychological side effect from, 9/10 times, Child abuse. Either physical or mental. in this case, most often, physical abuse.

But bdsm done right is about trusting your partner with your body. If it feels good it feels good. Which actually can heal the wounds of the abuse we recieved as a child. It becomes damaging, when someone breaks the trust and uses this trust for their own selfish wants. Aka, psychopaths or narcissists.

Doesn’t mean all psychopaths or narcissists will do that. You can’t brand up an entire group of millions of people and call them all monsters and fuck ups. Specially when it’s YOU who are the one who lack the insight in the full spectrum of people’s motivation to engage in bdsm.

Butt here comes my hairy but. If you should have the rights of being allowed to be proud of being a feminist- then let them be proud of exploring their own bodies like THEY want.