What It’s Like to Be Invisible
Leila Janah
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I totally get it. I always try to do my best, but am often forgetful.

Something that needs to be said is that men don’t talk to another man’s wife/gf immediately for a reason. It’s partially instinctive and is often a protective mechanism that can be done out of respect for your relationship. When a guy has their hot wife/gf on their arm, you‘re aware they may be on high alert and you’re trying to follow the other guys lead. Men can be overly territorial with their women. Too much interest is bad…too little we’re jerks. Trust me, it’s not always that you’re invisible. There could be a subtle “man code” happening and it’s actually highly respectful to you and your man.

Of course, this isn’t always the case. So again, I get it.