A short list of family law questions asked on Reddit’s UK Legal Advice sub-reddit.

Dan Beale-Cocks
2 min readApr 24, 2017

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Reddit is a discussion forum website. It is organised into “sub-reddits” — forums with a specific interest. All sub-reddits and reddit users have to follow the main site rules, but sub-reddits can impose their own rules on top. One of these sub-reddits is /r/LegalAdviceUK where people can seek advice from random Internet strangers about stuff that’s going on in their life.

Here’s a very short, incomplete, list of questions asked in /r/LegalAdviceUK that fit roughly into family law. Every single one of these questions would benefit from good quality mediation, and most of them would need the calm advice of a family lawyer. Some of these questions appear to lose sight of the child, and don’t seem to have the child’s best interest at heart. The advice they get from random Internet strangers is variable. Most answers do not refer to case decisions. Many answers do not recommend getting legal advice.

Reading these questions, and the poor quality advice provided, makes me really worry for the children involved. Access to family law is important. Politicians keep saying that more needs to be done to protect mental health of children — here’s something they can actually do: Properly fund mediation and access to family law.

Here’s one that shows how poorly understood child protection is: Neighbour falsely accused of hitting stepdaughter, is having 10yr old daughter taken away soon! Advice needed.

Ex-Wife trying to hack daughter’s iPhone

Ex husband suddenly wants to take daughter (6) away for weekend. I’m scared. What can I do?

I have already been banned from seeing my daughter before she is born.

X-Post from /Legaladvice — Daughters bio-logical father wants access without me :/ advice needed

Ex won’t let me see daughter, even though I pay child maintenance. What do i do?

Witholding custody

I have recently had to look after my child, I am not sure what to do.

My step daughter want me to adopt her and her siblings

My Dad has had some false allegations put on him, what can I do to help?

Child contact issues going to court

Please help justice needed

Child Contact Orders

Can anyone give me the smallest nugget of advice please?

Advise Re Guardianship of my daughter (EAW)

Changing step-daughters surname

Step daughter gets terrible sleep when she is with blood father due to sharing a bed

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