To Pray or Not to Pray

One of my favorite pictures is of a poor bearded man with his head bowed, praying over a simple meal. This famous picture, taken in 1918 by Eric Enstrom, is called “Grace.” The Bible says that we should pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17) and that we should give thanks in every situation (Colossians 3:17).

Traditionally faithful Christians have practiced these instructions by pausing before a meal to pray and give thanks. But should Christians be praying over meals in public places such as restaurants and coffee shops? In an increasingly hostile world, Christians can become uncomfortable with such public prayers. In fact some have stopped the practice altogether.

But here are several reasons why we ought to continue this tradition. First, taking time whenever we eat, even in public, to humbly and quietly pray, is a Christian practice that helps shape us into Christ-likeness. The Lord himself, when he ate with his disciples regularly give thanks (Luke 24:30). How could we do less?

Second, sincere prayers when we eat out can be a blessing to other Christians. How often have you seen people at a table bow to pray and thought, “they must be Christians, too!” You felt encouraged. This is not the main reason we pray, but it can be a blessing.

Finally, praying over food in public places can be an opportunity for ministry. As you give thanks, you can pray for the business. Pray that the lord would bless the owners and all who work in the restaurant. If you are about to pray and the waiter or waitress approaches, just be honest. Notice their name and say, “Hi, we were just about to pray and give thanks for our food. Can we also pray for you?” The Lord can use such acts of kindness to help a needy person.

Imagine what an impact it would have, if Christians all across our busy city, with its millions of hurting people, would faithfully practice public prayers. Why not make a commitment to be more faithful in this simple Christian practice? And encourage others to do the same.