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Danica Lani

Danica Lani

Blinded? How narrative can help you see

Do you remember a moment when you froze in front of a group of people? You might have been standing in front of your classroom as a kid or…

May 26, 2023

Blinded? How narrative can help you see

May 26, 2023

Danica Lani

Feeling Stressed and Out of Balance? It Might Be Your Gender Identity

I’m standing in the kitchen, a dropped plate on the floor, staring at my hand. There’s quite a cut on my palm and it’s starting to bleed…

May 19, 2023

Feeling Stressed and Out of Balance? It Might Be Your Gender Identity

May 19, 2023

Danica Lani

But why Drag? 10 ways exploring Drag has you be a more round

Imagine a place, a safe place, among people who get you on some level, who perhaps have a similar lived experience… imagine gathering…

Apr 28, 2023

But why Drag? 10 ways exploring Drag has you be a more round

Apr 28, 2023

Danica Lani

The Power of Boundaries: Why Saying No Can Feel So

Hey there, breathtaking human! Today, we’re going to talk about something that’s close to my heart — integrity and sex. As part of the…

Apr 14, 2023

The Power of Boundaries: Why Saying No Can Feel So

Apr 14, 2023

Danica Lani

The magic of being a first-time Drag King

Being a first-time Drag King can be a transformative and empowering experience. My first time performing as a Drag King in 2011 in…

Apr 6, 2023

The magic of being a first-time Drag King

Apr 6, 2023

Danica Lani

Staying sane in the face of public hate

First comes the shock — especially when it’s unexpected. You’re scrolling along on socials and boom — there’s a post that shows you…

Mar 23, 2023

Staying sane in the face of public hate

Mar 23, 2023

Danica Lani

Danica Lani

The King Coach writing about gender, sexuality & performance for LGBTQIA+ people so that we can be 100% at home in our own skin | Kings of Joy + Queer & Tantric

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