Beautifully, beautifully said. Notice no one said anything about the women who find a poor sap who makes good money, have his kid and stick him with the bill. No, no one points at moocher moms as irresponsible. You said it well — nutrition, shelter and love. Honestly though, to me love is enough. There are so many places in the world where the others are in massively short supply, but love is always enough.