I agree to most of the opinions in your articles, but when I think about all of them together (or…

I believe that the love Kris is writing about is a verb, an action, a way of being in relationship with another person, not a noun, or a specific emotion, or constellation of feelings. Though, in my experience, doing love in the way Kris is describing usually produces, or is accompanied by, strong feelings of affection… and someone “loving” you in the way Kris describes will, if you are emotionally healthy, produce feelings of affection in you.