Loved the article, but I’m a bit skeptical about this:
“ Can you pursue compersion in a monogamous relationship? Yes. It’s a quality that can help enliven any relationship.”
In monogamy we can feel joy when our partners get a raise, a promotion, are excited about a project we’re not into… But monogamy means we have a say about whom they have sex with and they are forbidden to fall in love with somebody else. Doesn’t that make compersion in monogamy impossible?