No, your husband is right. Not all men. Not decent men. I’ve lived a lot of years and have known men as friends and as lovers, and I can’t recall one of them talking that way — well maybe one, but he grew up in a small town and had nothing better to do other than sleep around and surround himself with other wild and crazies. My brother never talked like that. My father never talked like that and condemned it. And you’re right. We need to give men a break. It’s time.