Abbie, thanks so much for sharing your experience. I had my own reasons for going off hormonal birth control. I thought I’d mention checking out FAM (fertility awareness method), particularly the symptothermal method, for use as birth control. Its a great way to take control of your own fertility. No doctors, no prescriptions needed. I picked up a copy of Taking Charge of your Fertility by Toni Weschler and learned a ton about my body that I wish I had learned years ago. After reading the book and lots of other great online resources, I track my fertility signs daily (its quite easy). And I feel much more connected with my body and my cycle.