Quick Success Hack : Your Wants Need To Change
We all “want” something we do not have.
It’s human nature:
- “I want more money.”
- “I want a new girlfriend (or boyfriend).”
- “I want to look different.”
- “I want to feel different.”
- “I want to be happy.”
The list goes on & on.
“Nonetheless, the reality is that — no one cares what you want! “
At best, it is an after thought for the vast majority of the folks you interact with.
So, why are we so focused on what we want?
A psychologist would probably attribute it to self-centralization or plain ol’ selfish ambition. Two personality traits that when properly administered can lead to healthy growth, and help one advance their life plan towards self-actualization.
Unfortunately, we tend to “want” things without a plan, like children filled with excitement by the thought of receiving an exotic pet for a birthday. (🤔 I’ve yet to meet a 10 year old who is responsible enough to take care of a pony…)
Similar to the child who never receives that pony, our lack of planning leads to frustration when our desires go unmet. In the worst cases, a feeling of inadequacy or victimization overwhelms one who’s “wants” go unfufilled in the face of unrealistic expectation.
That said, 🗣 you need to change the way you think about your “wants.”
By shifting an “idealistic want” to align with your “strategic needs.”
Example
- “I want a female to like me or a different type of girlfriend.”
“If you are not receiving the desired result & your advances are going unrequited… You NEED to make a change.” — Donte’ A. Bundrent
The world does not revolve around any of us… If you want someone or thing that is unavailable to you — you need to change your habits. As your habits shift, so will your results.
By making habitual shifts you’ll find that in many instances the things you “want” will be more attracted to you. This new found attention is a direct byproduct of prioritizing your “want” by shifting the external factors contributing to your previous lack of success.
[By making yourself more attractive to the person, place or thing you want you’ll find that you are more likely to acquire it:]
Your wants will need you!
Key Take Aways
- Success leaves clues.
- Doing the same thing & expecting a different result can be considered insanity.
- As you improve your relationship with personal development your desires change too.
- A subtle shift can unlock your potential to be more desirable & successful.
- Your happiness is a proactive pursuit.
#OneLife
#YouVsYou
#Confidence
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