Congratulations on 16 years of marriage!!
I agree with all your points.
About compromise, I have only recently learned that it’s crucial to compromise even when you feel you are 100% right! A case in point: my kids from previous marriage visit on weekends and I have consistently told them they are always welcome. My spouse, however, would like an occasional weekend off, free from my kids. That was a tough pill for me to swallow, but showing a little flexibility paid huge dividends!
Wishing you another 16 years of love!