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Killing Each Other Softly: The Critical Role of Gentleness in Intimate Relationships

A common problem I deal with in couples therapy is people often a) don’t use nearly enough humor in their relationships, and b) use humor…

Jun 11

Killing Each Other Softly: The Critical Role of Gentleness in Intimate Relationships

Jun 11

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WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR PAIN

It has been said you will either learn how to transform your pain in life, or else you will transmit it to others.

Apr 20, 2023

Scrabble letters that spell out, “SHIFT HAPPENS”

Apr 20, 2023

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The Fault Question

In this post I’m going to address one of the most common issues that comes up in couples therapy: the question of fault. How much is his…

Feb 14, 2023

The Fault Question

Feb 14, 2023

David Flowers, LPC, NCC

Why It’s a Bad Idea to Resist Going to Couples Therapy

Posted: April 26, 2024

Apr 26

Why It’s a Bad Idea to Resist Going to Couples Therapy

Apr 26

David Flowers, LPC, NCC

The Power of Commitment in Relationships: Building Strong Connections

Commitment is a primary ingredient in the recipe for a successful and long-lasting relationship. It is the bedrock that holds the…

Jun 13, 2023

One hand holding a heart, reaching out to another hand that is open to take it.

Jun 13, 2023

David Flowers, LPC, NCC

The Relationship Benefits of Mindfulness and Meditation

My Own Experience

Jun 1, 2023

Open hands with a single yellow flower in the middle of them

Jun 1, 2023

David Flowers, LPC, NCC

When therapists get together, one of the things we talk about frequently is the challenge of doing…

[Finish this article on my blog]

May 3, 2023

Two parents teaching their daughter how to ride a bicycle

May 3, 2023

David Flowers, LPC, NCC

Celebrating Progress

The road to heaven is heaven all the way to heaven, and the road to hell is hell all the way to hell.

Apr 20, 2023

Blurred girl holding a sparkler while offering one to someone else

Apr 20, 2023

David Flowers, LPC, NCC

How to See Your Partner

What Keeps People From Seeing Each Other: The Presumption of Basic Rightness

Apr 5, 2023

A standard eye-chart like you would find in an eye doctor’s office

Apr 5, 2023

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Why My Posts May Not Speak to You and What to Do About It

[Read this post on my website]

Jan 19, 2023

Why My Posts May Not Speak to You and What to Do About It

Jan 19, 2023

David Flowers, LPC, NCC

David Flowers, LPC, NCC

I’m a licensed professional counselor in Michigan. I work exclusively with couples and write mostly about mental health topics.

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