“It’s absurd that we would prioritize the hottest new device, the cool car, or trendy toy over owning that which makes us feel the most engaged and most alive” wrote Neil Patel in his book, Hustle. Yet this is exactly what most people do.
Most people never deal with this stuff. This garbage always comes out, though; it ruins relationships and sabotages opportunities until you are broken. It’s your responsibility to resolve this. That’s what being an adult means — resolving the garbage people have done to you.