I’m sorry. I was unaware that one cannot disagree with another’s feelings. Are you saying that seriously? Is it not allowed in polite society to tell someone what their feelings are irrational?? I’ll remember that when my four year old throws a tantrum, and then I’ll walk a mile in his little shoes, ignoring the details and listening for the Forest and Trees of Obfuscation. While trying to avoid Legos.
I’m not disagreeing that she had those feelings. I’m suggesting that those feelings are … well … not going to make her feel better. I’d love to make he feel better and be better.
I argue the details because the details are the facts. Feelings are not.