Sep 4, 2018 · 1 min read
I think the reason is in your last sentence.
“And I have no idea why”.
You expect the guy to know about women and their culture, but you have ‘no idea’ about men and their culture.
Perhaps that is also why you are 35 and still going on Tinder dates.
Whilst I totally agree that “Stop” means ‘Stop’ and immediately. I can also point out that many times I have followed said instructions only to be told that I didn't ‘try’ hard enough. Or, wasnt interested because I didnt persevere!
So, it cuts both ways. You cannot be ‘shy’ and ‘coy’ and ‘not forward’ and expect a guy to know every time.