Apr 7Member-onlyI went on a trip around the world over a decade ago, and most of my observations were wrong.“The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.” - Marcel Proust I still remember that late-summer evening when I boarded British Airways flight 94. My first flight across the Atlantic in over two decades. I had seven months planned out. Every continent…History9 min read
Aug 30, 2021Member-onlyMeritocracy is the New AristocracyFor those of you following my stories through the years, you have an idea where I come from. I’m WEIRD. By that I don’t just mean strange or peculiar (though I’ve been called that as well); I mean the phenomenon that’s been noticed among psychologists looking at who participates in…Work7 min read
Jan 25, 2021Member-onlyHow I got on board with political correctnessYou might say I came of age at the dawn of political correctness. It was a generation ago. I was in college, back when Baby Boomer academics, those folks who opposed Vietnam and the draft, hit their career stride. They began questioning all that Dead White Male canon of Western…Politics6 min read
Nov 2, 2020Member-onlyThe conscience of an ex-conservativeFor you loyal readers, you may recognize the journey-based subheading: it’s almost the same one I used on a post four years back—a lifetime ago, seems like, in the lead up to the last Presidential election. There I told about my immigration path in America. …Politics8 min read
Published in The Startup·Jul 26, 2020Member-onlyIt’s Time to Cancel Brilliant JerksI still remember my first brilliant-jerk boss. It was decades ago, back when shooting video meant bulky cameras and VHS cassettes. Eli (not his real name) was a local boy wonder, a wunderkind of Spielberg proportions, in my mind at least: a twenty-six-year-old medical resident who also had a thriving…Psychology8 min read
Mar 8, 2020Member-onlyEscape From BougiestanAlmost five years ago, my then-domestic partner/now-husband, our two pets, and I, packed our things and moved away from San Francisco’s Potrero Hill neighborhood. …Real Estate6 min read
Dec 30, 2018My Year-End Facebook CleanseIt’s been more than a decade since I gave up soda. Coca-Cola in particular. I kept hearing about its harmful health effects. I’d been a committed one-Coke-a-day guy for almost a decade, then a Diet-Coke-a-day guy for most of another. I was sure I was hooked, had less chance of…News5 min read
Jul 31, 2017DecadeExactly ten years ago today, I boarded a JetBlue flight from Boston, bound for a relatively new destination on their roster: SFO. I wasn’t exactly Mary-Ann Singleton, at least not anymore. For one thing, I was a good bit older. For another, I’d lived in San Francisco before, in the…San Francisco4 min read
May 6, 2017Member-onlyEnding Inequality As We Know ItThe biggest progressive goal ever for a time gone insane. — “My Daddy makes four thousand dollars a week!” There it was. My earliest introduction to income inequality, sitting on the dock of a bay at summer camp with a group of fellow ten-year-old boys, back in the heart of the Reagan era. Never mind the appropriateness of a kid that…Economics7 min read
Nov 13, 2016A Liberal’s letter to President-Elect TrumpDear Mister President-Elect, Congratulations! As you can probably guess, I didn’t vote for you. And yeah, many of my crowd supported your opponent and, as you’ve put it, said some things about you that were not so nice. …Politics5 min read