I’M AFRAID I’M GOING TO HAVE TO CANCEL MEN
John DeVore
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I would just ask that you learn what Phenomenology is and also understand that not every man has had the life you have. My mom let me grow up knowing I was a mistake, and should never have been born. I was a target of abuse by my step mother, which helped me learn how to be a victim of abuse throughout my romantic life (read up on the victim cycle of abuse if you don’t know what that is, both are not exclusive domains of women). While you might consider this whining, it is my life, so hopefully you will understand when I say I have no power in this world, except to continue to try to overcome the pain of the past in order to be as well of an integrated person as I can be.