The “best show on dirt” takes place every Saturday night, May through September, right here in New Jersey — In the movie “Mommie Dearest” (1981), starring Faye Dunaway as an aging Joan Crawford, the actress says to a room full of men who want to remove her from her position on the board of Pepsi, “Don’t fuck with me, fellas! This ain’t my first time at the rodeo!” In…