Maybe we all have had the thought that being successful meant being a professional, having a fully furnished house, a car, a wife or husband, earning a substantial income every month, and living either a luxurious or not-so-luxurious life.
I was like that too, living by society’s standard of success, until I realized that I can define success on my own terms.
I am 20, still an undergraduate student, dependent on my parents, with modest savings and investments, no romantic relationship, a handful of friends. Can you believe that at times, I consider myself already successful?
Success largely hinges on one’s perspective. It’s crucial to disregard the opinions of others. Although I can’t deny that I still aspire for the sentiment expressed in the initial statement, there are moments when I feel accomplished:
- Attaining peace of mind and mental stability.
- Maintaining friendships that are low maintenance.
- There is confidence in the ability to achieve independence in the future, regardless of circumstances (self-assurance that even when I lie low or slack off at times, I will get through it and will be able to support myself).
- Do not depend on anyone for happiness.
- Willing to accept criticism and can communicate in a healthy way.
- Allocating time for occasional relaxation within the limits of my financial resources, typically once a month.
There is actually a lot to write down, but that is all I could think of for now, and yeah, that is what my definition of success requires. Hence, those are what I strive and hurdle for. I am living a simple life, and it could be light and dreamless. I have thought of that too, that it was somewhat incompetent. Eventually, as I get to know myself, I have learned that this is me, and so are you.
What does your success requires?
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