They are the worst kind — they are fun to be with but make you feel terrible about yourself — they treat you like a second option or a doormat.
Friends — The Good, The Bad and The Downright Selfish

I’ve recently experienced this type of friendship which left me feeling horrible about myself. And like you, I’ve questioned whether or not I attracted this somehow in my life. I’ve come to realize that I didn’t , that these type of “friends” are just out in the world and that maybe, just maybe, they cross our paths for us to learn how to deal with them, which helps us grow as individuals.