I’ve had an unusual penis for my whole life and have run into a lot of the same issues, although I’ve never tried to see a doctor for it. It can be uncomfortable, in large part because the women I’ve been with aren’t used to having to accommodate a specific need for men during sex, so when I ask them to slow down, do something differently, or change their expectations about what I can/will do they immediately assume I’m not into it. It’s frustrating, but it’s kept me from having much casual sex and forced me to work on developing actual intimacy so that my partner and I can have the conversations necessary to enjoy ourselves and each other. It’s taken twelve years of sexual activity to get there, but I’m actually starting to enjoy this “sex” thing! Thank you, broken penis, for forcing me to do things the right way.