Why You Need to Take Care of Yourself First
Herbert Lui

I see this all the time. People love to align themselves with people who are just slightly more screwed up than themselves for this very reason. Look at so many relationships you know. Then all of a sudden one of them goes through a period of self growth and leaves the other behind because the dynamic is broken. Facing our own shit is much much harder and takes so much more courage than hiding behind someone else’s.