PinnedPublished inThe Straight ShotConfessions of An Exhausted Strong Black Woman Obsessed With Her New SuperpowerLove can’t survive, let alone thrive, where there is no honesty, authenticity and vulnerability.Oct 226Oct 226
PinnedSeriously, Somebody Please Tell Me Why Women of a Certain Age Are Getting MarriedWhen the return on their hefty investment promises to be so painfully lowSep 832Sep 832
PinnedWhy Black Men Will F*ck You Over But Expect You to Keep Doing Right By HimIf a man plays with or fumbles your heart, don’t ask him why he does it. Ask yourself why you let him.Jul 1231Jul 1231
Pinned7 Obvious Yet Overlooked Signs That a Man is Into YouWhat I’ve learned from a few good men — and a lot of bad onesJul 258Jul 258
We Wear the Mask that Grins and LiesAnd gives us the illusion of safety and invincibility, while they slowly strangle us into silence, shame, and suffering.Sep 281Sep 281
How Black Men Inspire the Respect of Black Women with StandardsBlack man, if a Black woman is disrespecting you, it’s not her. It’s you.Sep 17Sep 17
What a Deep Tissue Massage Reminded Me About BoundariesEvery interaction, says Spiritual Teacher Carolyn Myss, is a negotiation of power. That is, she who sets proper boundaries, holds more…Sep 131Sep 131
Uncomfortable Truths Black Women Find Hard to FaceWill the Strong Black Woman ever retire?Sep 114Sep 114
Why It’s So F*cking Hard to Love a Man: A Case StudyIs there any wonder that there’s an epidemic of loneliness among menAug 2019Aug 2019