Go, girl, go!! I hope all your readers realize that everything you described is 100 percent true.
Any woman who has been in an emotionally abusive relationship can relate to what you’re saying. The gaslighting (and everything else) is so very, very real.
I hope your article will go a long way toward educating and convincing people that this sort of misogyny is true psychopathology and not just “oh, he’s a jerk.”