Elikem, I was deeply moved by your response to this article. Glad you spoke up. Had a journal not yet posted, here, that your words inspired me to post. It was written before reading the fish-love article, but to me, it shares what is at the core of all of this — what is lacking.
It’s only as we see to the wounded inner self, caring, learning self-love, that we’ll have love to share with others, IMO.