The thing is, “Grrrl”, you’re continuing to hide behind an online alias while having this conversation with people who are already in a more vulnerable position just by virtue of having real names and faces attached.
You are actually making demands by placing the responsibility on Briana to come up with solutions to the problems, and continuing to take up space here in the comments without offering any solutions of your own. And expecting people of color to watch out for your feelings.
We needed to do better. We were there in solidarity with Charlottesville, where folks bravely came out to confront a white nationalist rally. That’s WHY WE WERE THERE. There were 2 of them! They needed to be pushed out with full force. We needed to band together. We needed to do anything other than turn our backs and let them continue on their merry ways.