They ruin your life when they convince you that worry is a shield, a barrier between you and pain, when in fact, it welcomes pain in and buries it deep within you. They ruin your life every single time you allow a triggering thought to create an emotional spiral within you, one that you follow into a pit, and are suddenly sidelined from your goals.
…jerk-jerk reaction to me. If you’re honest with yourself, I’m a realist. I saw a meme once that read: It used to be “how long do we date before we have sex, now it’s how long do we have sex before we date.” I’m ill at how accurate that is, and also ill that I might be alone forever because I won’t particip…
Don’t invest anything, that’s the dating mantra now. Not your feelings, not your hopes, not a bra from a nicer place than Target, nothing. If it costs more than a Lyft ride, don’t spend it on dating. The ROI in 2018 is really low.