The solution is actually a better relationship — one built on mutual respect and daily reinvestment; treating your partner and each moment as something very dear, to be “re-won and re-loved” every day.
Do you. Not what you think others want you to do. External motivators are good for a few months, maybe a year. Internal motivators last a lifetime.
The best don’t worry about being the best; they worry about being the best at getting better. What follows are a handful of principles — mindsets, really — that I’ve observed in people who are …