Little Truths

Deniz Vevzioglou
Sep 8, 2018 · 5 min read

Truth No1: Certain expreriences can affect people' s lives but can not determine it.

For example, children of divorced parents are not sure that they will grow up and will only do rotten and bad relationships! There are people who grew up with their divorced parents and lived a happy life and made a happy marriage. Others again, they simply did not succeed and they had lived with their parents together and loved ones! It has nothing to do with a bad experience you had! The point is to manage this experience properly and to give yourself the opportunity to become the person you want and dream of!

Truth No2 : Lying by need or habit, will not come into your own good

Okay, there are small white spits that due to good upbringing you have to say! How to manage to say your friend that she cooks horribly and you’re not going to go and eat a goat in her house! So you say that you will be late to come back from work and all right! Just think that even these sneaking spiders can be found in your way and act as a poison in whatever relationship, friendly personal. In the end you will see that the lie, small or big can kill love! The truth hurts but does not kill!

Truth No3 : Sex can always give you an answer but not necessarily the one that you are looking for

You are likely to make the best sex of your life with a person who should not even get into it. On the other hand, you may have the best (elderly) man in your bed, but the answer you want will not come, the best sex with him, not after 5 or 105 times. At the same time, you may be sleeping with a guy who will be bad for you, but the answer will come to the rest of the ugly life you will pass by. Generally, at the time of sex, you will always get a response (whether it suits you or not) but unfortunately, in the rest of our cold life, the answers you get on the bed will not be relevant to the other unresolved questions.

Truth No4 : If you do not try something, you do not know if you are a talent in it

If you can drive a 1000cc car, you are likely to be able to fly from Ferrari to Formula 1. If you have a balance, you can excel as a classical dancer, if you hold your hands, you can become Master Chef but in general, nowhere you will not go as long as you do not test the talent you have in one of the above and not only. Sure, you may not be able to reach Schumacher or J.Oliver, but only by trying will you find the gradient you finally have.

Truth No5 : Fashion come and goes, but style never dies!

Because your dressmaker tell you to wear shoes that are not easy at all to walk, it does not mean you have to crack your ankles to be in fashion. And not only is it not necessary, but you should not follow such fashions that will make you look right. You can invest in fashion items that fit your style and establish a unique style that is always fashionable

Truth No6 :No matter how hard you try, you can not pretend that you are full in love

Staying in a relationship in which you no longer feel love it' s a situation that will not have a happy ending. If you are finally in a relationship for the wrong reasons (safety, money, a child) and not for the person next to you in bed, then you know what is the right thing to do! Surely, there are situations where you can love a person with time and situations that will bind you, but how sure you are that you want to take your years without the emotion of love on the side of the wrong person for the wrong reasons (when the your other half is somewhere out there)! And if you think I’m romantic, just look around: what kind of couples stayed together? Those that matured or those who were really loved?

Truth No7 : Bad people hardly change

Some people over the years become beautiful. Some other get ugly. Some others, become more gentle. One of the characteristics that hardly change in people around us is viciousness. A bad guy and an avenger will hardly lose that idiom, no matter how hard they try. If in your circle, you have friends or people who have given you few opportunities to prove that they can do good things but the reality does not justify you, get away from them! Viciousness may not leave, but it can surely get stuck.

Truth No8 : No one is perfect!

OK you were born Virgo with a Virgo Ascendant. Your momentum to perfectionism does not make you automatically perfect. At the same time, not even the people around you come out in extra-free version. We all have disadvantages and we have peculiarities that look like blemish in the eyes of some. You must acknowledge your own defects and forgive the non-perfection of those around you that is perfectly normal.

Truth No9 : When you are in need, please ask for help

As much as self-reliant you are, high confidence you have in yourself, the moment that you need help will come. If you do not ask for help, do not expect others to take the initiative to save you. If you are generally a person who provides help to anyone who asks you, but youstubbornly refuse to ask for yourself help with any problem that affects you, you are not becoming a better person, you are just expressing a devaluation to the people that you have next to you and near you in this life!

Truth No10: We always need good friends!!

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Psychology, Mental Health, Help, Happiness, Personal Development

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