Derek Dunnom
Sep 5, 2018 · 2 min read

“Guys, I will say this over and over and over again: It doesn’t really matter how long you take if you take care of her first.”

Be careful with black and white rules. Life is best experienced along a spectrum. A recent medium has a woman complaining that a man who is trying his darndest not to come might say something like “Did I make you come”?

The woman (being pedantically correct) points out that the guy politely thinking about putting his coat down over the puddle so his lady can walk over while he coaches her like a therapist though making sure she gets her needs met has incorrect grammar.

As she states, he makes it sound like he is OWNING her orgasm. I’m pretty sure that wasn’t his intent, but that didn’t stop Her writing the article saying that he violated her boundaries.

Glad we are this far along to be having this discussion. Nothing is the matter besides what people are still making the matter, much as Morgan Freeman’s statement about “You want to end racism? Stop talking about it”.

Thanks for the tips on what to think and when. I’ll choose my own thoughts thank you. Again, and thank you kindly for the article. I think it is important and I am glad you wrote it. Do you believe my sentiment? You should. I own it although you are free to interpret it as you like as that is your right.

We are in the gray/grey areas aren’t we? I think it is exciting. These grey areas brought to the light provide us with direction to move onward through the fog but yet not arrive at a conclusion. Rather to arrive at the peace that everyone has been self expressed. Even the introverted marginalized white male. When he is self expressed then…