When (& How) to Ask About Pronouns:

A Shy Enby’s Guide for Cis & Trans People

Devon Price
Apr 29, 2018 · 12 min read
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One of Target’s pronoun pins from last summer.

Before You Ask for Pronouns, Consider:

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A trans flag hastily drawn in Pixlr.
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I run a workshop on how to correct misgendering. Here are some example phrases and methods.
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These folks are clearly Chris Fleming fans who are trying to be supportive. But since Chris decided to ignore all these questions, we should assume moving foward that Chris doesn’t want to discuss it.

How to Ask

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Neutral pronouns aren’t neutral when they’re being used to devalue trans women.

After You’ve Asked

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More materials from the correcting pronoun workshop.

Some Caveats

In Sum

Devon Price

Written by

They/Them. Nonbinary person. Social Psychologist. Preorder my book: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Laziness-Does-Not-Exist/Devon-Price/9781982140106

Devon Price

Written by

They/Them. Nonbinary person. Social Psychologist. Preorder my book: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Laziness-Does-Not-Exist/Devon-Price/9781982140106

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