“out of your league” should be redefined. Girls that you are crazy about, you have the best chance with. Here’s why: When you get into a relationship with someone you don’t like, the girl will pull you down. because even if she likes you, she’ll pick up on the things you resent about her then she will compromise. but because she is not free to be herself, she will want you to not be yourself. if she’s not happy, how can she be happy with you?