And this is what she talked about in her article? That she suddenly gets privilege by publicly coming out as a woman, even though nothing has changed — not her experiences, beliefs or even appearance — except that other people now put a different label on her.

I didn’t read the rest of your response (yet), so this response may be something you’ve already addressed, and if so, then sorry for “mansplaining”.

Does using that word make me sound ridiculous? I don’t know why there’s such a stigma surrounding that word.