…ase, ability to ski black diamonds) have nothing to do with someone’s ability to be a good partner. If you have to make a list it should include things like arguing well, making you feel special, spiritual growth, etc. But these things are not obvious on the one-date-wonders swiped from Tinder and Bumble. You actually have to spend time with someone to let these qualities come to the surface. Unfortunately, most people are overly wary of wasting time.