500 Intimate Questions for Couples
“Pure Genius! Not only has our relationship deepened, these simple questions led to weeks (and weeks) of astonishingly great sex.”
Couples who have the deepest intimacy and hottest sex (even if it is their 1st, 237th or 1000th time) share this one “secret”. Do you?
As one of the world’s best known relationship experts I get a lot of emails (up to 1000 a day). Here are some of the common questions or concerns. I’m pretty sure you have some of the same thoughts.
* I’m in an intimate relationship but how can I REALLY KNOW if I am sexually pleasing him/her.
* How will I know if my future spouse and I are sexually compatible if we save sex for the honeymoon?
- We’ve been married for a couple of decades and I’m not really sexually satisfied anymore. I feel we’re in a rut and I’d like to spice things up but not sure how to do that.
HERE IS THE ANSWER
The hallmark of any great relationship is excellent communication. And if you want a life-time of sizzling sex then you HAVE TO TALK ABOUT INTIMATE MATTERS. There is no other way. Period.
You can certainly come up with 20–50 questions on your own. But some of those questions would probably be pretty awkward asking your sweetheart. However, if you told your darling that you got this list of 500 Intimate Questions written by a relationship expert who has been
on Oprah and more than 500 other TV and radio shows and that you thought they would be fun to go through — then magically it seems rather normal to be asking and answering these types of questions.
The beautiful thing about these questions is that they are perfect for couples whether they are both virgins or have been married for decades. In my professional opinion 95% of couples have not asked 80% of these questions.
In survey after survey you will find that those who have the most satisfying sex lives are committed couples who are great communicators when it comes to sex and intimacy.
REAL QUESTIONS FROM REAL PEOPLE
I write several popular email newsletters and have more than 150,000 subscribers. I asked my readers to share what they believed would be the most important intimate questions they thought should be asked. These could be questions they would love to ask their partner (but might be too timid or nervous about doing so).
Or questions they wished they had asked before they got married. Or questions that they think would build on their intimacy and take their sex life to the next level.
I took those questions and combined them with my own from my 20+ years of counseling 1000s of couples and helping men and women to realize the most blissful relationship possible. I believe I have come up with the most comprehensive and useful list of intimate questions on the planet.
