Critical Care for Unstoppable Growth

Prakash Kushwah
Sep 2, 2018 · 3 min read
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Be evil free and then everything is set on auto-pilot successful mode. And it seems difficult but it simply means remain at least non-negative for others. Do not create trouble for anyone by action, thought or most importantly through judgements.

Just achieve this and you will be surprised with the advantages of it.

  1. Do not do any harm to anyone. That is easy and most people follow it. Easy to understand.
  2. Do not desire harm for anyone. Means, don’t be jealous or nurture wrong intention for any one. Easy to understand but little difficult for implementation. Many people follow this to a good percentage. It doesn’t need extra time, abilities or anything of that sort. Just a simple yes from depth of being, realizing the fact that it is WRONG as a human and we have no business in such negative way of things for anyone.
  3. Do not consider anyone as negative, wrong, or bad person. Essentially everyone is innocent and inseparable part of absolute reality usually referred as God. This is most difficult to understand, accept and apply. Although it doesn’t take any money, effort or time. But we are so much used to judging others, blaming, and nitpicking that we find it impossible to drop judgmental habit. We derive unconscious pleasure of being better than others in this or that way. This is kind of gratification to ego, at least unconsciously. Our ego feeds on such kind of negativity and relative goodness. But it has many serious implications and cause of many impurities and negativities in our mental world. Irrespective whether other is bad or good but we have no right to believe as bad/negative, this firm conviction should be made in our core of hearts.
  4. It doesn’t let us practice first 2 points cent percent. We keep doing something or thinking negative too if we have some negative beliefs/judgement for anyone on this earth.
  5. If we consider someone bad/wrong then negative thoughts or feelings will continue to pop up in our minds and hearts. Conversely, if we practice this our minds remain light, pure without any additional effort on our part. We come to our mistakes quickly and do not cover it by showing others mistakes, and try honestly to remove those and not build a wall of excuses to defend those.
  6. We don’t get attached to good qualities nor boast about those. That keeps good qualities and virtues naturally flourishing in us.
  7. Whatever good we do for others that is done naturally and without sense of arrogance or burdening others. Or expecting any return favors.
  8. By power of belief and positivity we help others as well to introspect. Others are like mirrors, if we point a finger they feel angry and they point the anger back at us. If we see our faults and consider them positive and good then they will have tendency to see their faults and thus purify themselves automatically. When we see faults in them it helps none. If everyone looks within and sees one’s own faults where they have full control to set matters correct then it is a chain of positive transformations.
  9. Judgment misdirects our attention and intentions, our real wealth. Our energy and wisdom is spent on others negatively and we get distracted from our purpose. This takes us on a dead end as we don’t have control over what should happen or what others should do, we have control only on what we should do.

So practice non-judgmental attitude religiously and cent percent in life. It takes no money, no effort, no time but saves a lot of time, lot of energy and most of all serves humanity in an effortless way. And always keeps your ego in check. The subtle ego is strengthens from relative qualities and strengths over others.

~Prakash


Originally published at www.quora.com.

Prakash Kushwah

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