To some people, you will always be the bad guy.
There are only so many people you can please in this world and I learned it the hard way that if you try to keep everyone happy, you might just end up disappointed in life. Because in the end, people are just disappointing. Hate me all you want but everyone will piss you off at some point or the other. Nobody is perfect, everyone makes mistakes, some just more than the rest.
And when you try to keep pleasing everyone and keeping everyone happy, you might even forget yourself in the middle of it all. That’s when reality hits you hard, that people are just selfish. Some people are good at hiding it than others.
If you have a heart of steve rogers, people are going to screw you over. In this day and age, kindness, nobility, ethics, morals have no place in society. If you try to inform someone about these, you are seen as an arrogant prick. So you let them be.
But coming back to point, if you have been that person who was always there for someone when they needed you, always picked up phone calls at 3 in the morning when your friend had a nervous breakdown, always made sure you celebrated any of your friend’s birthday as if it was your own and made sure that you cherished someone’s achievement as if it was your own, congratulations, you are just an idiot.
All is needed is one single mistake to be done on your part for you to be seen as the enemy. No matter how perfect you are, you will screw up something and people will be disappointed in you.
Guess what folks, none of this shit matters. There is no need to be sad about what people think about you. A bad person does something bad and nobody bats an eye but a good person screws up, everyone loses their shit. Why? Because that was not expected of you. Your friend is angry because you called him/her a minute late on their birthday? Or you missed a party they threw? Or you cut their call in the middle of a meeting?
You are not born to please anyone in this world. This is your life. Take control of it. Do not expect anything from anyone and life might start to seem pretty happy. People are just disappointing. If you rely on someone else for your happiness, you will end up the saddest person there is.
All it takes is one bad day for you to become the villain.

