5 days agoFinding Compassion for the “Pillowcase Rapist”We had an interesting conversation in group last night about accessing compassion in challenging circumstances. One of our Dharma-sisters has been attending the trial of the ‘Pillowcase Rapist’ in Florida because her husband, who is a physician, was asked to testify at the trial. The man on trial is said…Zen4 min readZen4 min read
6 days agoTwo Bad, Mutually Exclusive ChoicesHere’s a spiritual practice pro-tip that came up in a conversation with someone recently…. If you are faced with two mutually exclusive, bad choices, that’s a sign that you’re perceiving from within conditioned mind. Life as it is is not dualistic. Dualism is an invention of the human mind. We…Zen2 min readZen2 min read
Jan 19True Happiness in a World of ChangeHappy day, everyone! This is a follow-up to the post I made a couple days ago, in which I suggested that there is no such thing as true worldly happiness. I included a passage from the introduction to the Dhammapada, by Eknath Easwaran, in which the author describes the teachings…Zen3 min readZen3 min read
Jan 17The Is No True Worldly HappinessHowdy, folks! I hope you’re well today and having a good practice day so far There’s a phrase that has arisen in my mind over and over again these past several weeks. Here it is: “There is no true worldly happiness.” This morning after meditation I read the following passage…Zen2 min readZen2 min read
Jan 16“I am Adequate to Any Amount of Pain”What do you think is the worst thing that can happen to a person? The loss of the child? The loss of a life partner? The loss of one’s health? Being subject to physical or psychological violence? The worst thing that can happen to a person, it seems to me…Zen2 min readZen2 min read
Jan 14A Story About How Beautiful and Good People Are (and the Reach of the Buddha, even to this Present Day)I’d like to tell you about something that happened the other day that I found to be just delightful. Tomorrow I hope to jump back into more overtly spiritual stuff. I told you about my not-for-profit handyman service for the elderly and infirm, which I am in the process of…Zen4 min readZen4 min read
Jan 13Visioning a Home for Practice in Western NCI miss my years at the monastery sometimes. There are aspects of that life that I’m grateful to have left behind, but it was a beautiful life in many ways, and I remember it with deep fondness. The thing I miss the most is living in community. There was something…Zen5 min readZen5 min read
Jan 9My Life as I See It Right Now, and a Pet ProjectA thousand blessings to you all, friends! A couple times recently I’ve mentioned that I’ve been doing some discernment in regards to the life I’m living and how I would like to spend the next portion of my life going forward. I apologize if I have alarmed anyone. I’ve come…Zen4 min readZen4 min read
Jan 8Better to Be Someone Who Has than Someone Who WantsHello, everyone! I want to share something with you that I’ve been looking at for myself over these past few weeks…. In every moment, I’ve been seeing, I have a choice: I can be someone who wants, or I could be someone who has. Of course, if within myself I…Zen3 min readZen3 min read
Dec 25, 2022Let Us Practice What Jesus Taught, Today and All DaysGood day, good people! Happy Christmas to you, all! Over much of the world today people will be celebrating the life and teachings of Jesus Christ. Let us all honor that great man by practicing what he taught, today and all days. Let us all practice his unconditional love. Let…Buddhism2 min readBuddhism2 min read