Wow, we’re just going to have to agree to disagree. Even as a trans person myself and a long-time trans advocate, I disagree so strongly with so much of what you say that it is obvious neither of us is going to make any progress getting the other to see our point of view.
But to clarify, I will admit that my terms energy and pheromones were used as shorthand and I can now understand how you may easily be misinterpreting me. But “energy” I meant the non-physical body things that we pick up gendered cues from, such as various behaviors and ways of interacting. By “pheromones” I meant all chemical messages humans give off including odor, which we know changes with different levels of sex hormones and has an effect on sexual attraction (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Claus_Wedekind; https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-013-0126-9).
