Stunning reply. I too am working through the counterproductive brain patterns that fire in me that drive my need to set expectations and right/wrong point of view that sabotage relationships and my own performance. This is so insightful Karen. I am doing my work through a really innovative company that has a beta program that brings these items to light…where you learn about your brain and your own counterproductive patterns and how to overcome them. I am going to share your comment with their CEO. He is going to love reading it.